I am so sorry to hear about your losses. And you too understand the double whammy of grief. For the last year we have planned on adopting but recently my therapist told me that currently she would not approve our home-study for adoption. Triple whammy. My marriage is suffering to an extent that even adoption may not be a possibility. Right now, it doesn't even feel like the marriage will survive. It's all a bit much to take in and try to deal with. Thank you for your kind words of support!
Michelle