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    Default two miscarriages no children yet.. I am new

    I am new to INCIID, I was referred to this site from a friend. I hope I am posting in the right area.

    I've had two miscarriages. I was 11 wks the first time and no heartbeat. I lost the baby at 7 weeks. I had a D&C and three days after ended up in the hospital with an infection. I was in the hospital for three days. It was a horrible experience! I wish this upon no one.
    As it was our first baby and first miscarriage, we were devestated! I didn't know where to turn, where to find comfort. I was lost and depressed. Of course I had my husband, which was great thru the whole process, but they can only give so much. He didn't know what I was going thru, emotionally, mentally and my soul was aching.
    I did go to counseling and it helped but not to the extent that I wanted it too.
    The second time I lost the baby at 5 weeks. I miscarried naturally. It was like a period. But, this was mentally draining. I cried, and cried for days because I couldn't believe this was happening to me. WHY ME? Only GOD knows.
    My husband was very supportative but my heart was saddened and darkened. I felt alone, sad and blue.
    Our doctor ran many tests and found out that I have a defect with chromosome 13 and 14. He gave us a name for it but I don't remember what is was called. We have a 40% of miscarrying everytime we get pregnant.

    My husband and I are ready and really want a baby. It is very hard for us right now. I am trying to stay postive and upbeat but, at times.., I can't.

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    JodiG Guest

    Default Rellie I am so sorry for your losses

    I hope that you are able to find the support and information you are looking for at INCIID. There are amazing supports here. I am going to add the link to our grief and loss board
    http://www.inciid.org/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=145

    We have recently changed to this new format so our boards are a little slower while people get used to the changes. Feel free to visit our professionally moderated medical boards to ask any medical questions you may have.

    Me myself I have had 17miscarriages....I understand your sorrow...Inciid has been a great place for me to come over the years because I know I am not alone here.

    If there is anything I can do for you please let me know

    Hugs
    INCIIDJodi

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    Thank you so much.

    It hurts from time to time.
    There are trigger points and when that target gets triggered.., it takes me back.

    I am so sorry for your losses. Were they natural mc? Did you ever get an infection from and D&C? Did you ever get diagnosed?

    I got diagnosed and I have a defect with chromosome 13 and 14. I have a 40% chance of miscarrying. I am scared to death in trying to get pregnant again. I just want a healthy child.

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    JodiG Guest

    Default Hey hun

    Yes I did have an infection I almost died. I was Ureaplasma infection. I was badly infected after being medically neglected after a second term loss. I also have LPD, Septate uterus and blood clotting factors. I know how hard it is to keep trying look for the support here and in local infertility support groups. If you want to talk feel free to email me anytime.

    Hugs
    Jodi

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    Default so sorry for your losses

    Reading your story made me cry for you. I am currently going through my 4th miscarriage, the 1st one after I had 2 surgeries to repair a uterine defect. I know it is so devestating. I just had my first D&C 2 days ago (the other 3 miscarriages I passed naturally) When did you develop an infection after your D&C? I am so sorry you had to go through that on top of everything else. If you ever want to talk please feel free to email or message me. {HUGS}
    Kacy

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